Ok, so basically i've started this blog so that I can vent about all my bad dating experiences. Oh how I have a lot of them!! To start out we will talk about my most recent date. We'll call him Dallin. (oh wait that's really his name, oh well ;) So he was my first Facebook date experience. We had some friends in common so he must have found me through them. We chatted a little and then he ask me out. I messaged one of our mutual friends and ask her to give me her take on Mr. Dallin. She said that she thought he was a really nice guy who had just gone through a divorce. So i figured i'd give it a chance.
So the date was set for thursday. He lives in a town about two hours from where I live, but I work out that way once a month, so it worked out. He told me that he had just gotten divorced, so for our first date maybe we could just get pizza, watch a movie, and get to know each other. Just really low key. Which was fine with me. I've been divorced, so I know how getting back in the dating scene can be a little awkward at first.
So I get to his house and I ring the doorbell and his little girl answers the door? I love kids, don't get me wrong, but It really pisses me off when single dad's let their kids meet each and every girl that they date. I think it is sooo confusing for those sweet little kids. I realized my last boyfriend was in basically two relationships when his little boy called me the other girls name and then realized what he'd done and ran out of the room filled with embarasment. It wasn't his fault, that poor kid :( Sorry, my brain was shuffling, back to the story. So I got to know my date's little girl. She climbed on my lap and showed me all her dolls and showed off for a little bit. Sad thing is, Dad's going to have to explain why I never came back. So then he also informs me that he just found out that his divorce isn't actually final yet? Ok, so do you want me to come back tomorrow? lol So despite all that, after he put his little one to bed, we actually had a pretty fun night. We ate pizza and watched The Social Network, which was a pretty suiting movie since we basically met on Facebook. We talked and flirted and got along really well. I though he was pretty cute. He kept telling me how pretty I was. ( Which really means jack to me since i think all men are full of shit!!!!) But it was still flattering. So then he proceeded to ask if I had any plans for Saturday. Yes I did, my plans were to go back home to Vernal. But in Vernal I have no social life and no potetial to really meet too many bloaks. So why not stay in town and get to know this guy a little more. I decided I would go out with him again. He walked me to my car and I went back to my brother's house which is where I stay when I'm in the city.
So the next day (friday) I get a text from Dallin saying that he just got the call that his divorce had gone through. Yay! Maybe our next date will feel a little more comfortable. So I text him back and told him I was happy for him. Then he text me and ask if I was ready for Saturday. I don't know what I really needed to do to prepare? Kind of a stupid question i thougth, but whatever. So I waited a little while to respond, as to not seem too anxious, and then I resonded " ya what's the plan?". I got no response from him. Which didn't worry me because at this point I honestly thought that he was a little more into me than I was into him. So I hear my phone receive a text in the middle of the night. I ignore it and fall back to sleep. I wake up in the morning to a text that had been sent at 3:40am. It read: "Hey I just got your text, I can't hangout tomorrow night. I'm so sorry! I already had a pervious engagment. so sorry! I hope your day went ok!! ;)" Ok first of all, if you're gonna ditch someone you don't say you had a pervious engagment. You say that something came up! He needs to get better at this. So I responded "previous engagment huh? lol well ok your loss." At this point in my life, I've dated a lot! So when I'm being ditched I'm not going to be all nice and sweet about it.
So that all goes down and I'm feeling a little confused. My thought is that he probably took another girl out on friday, she stayed until 3 or so, and they had so much fun that he ditched me to hang out with her again. Really, pace yourself buddy. There are a lot of fish in the sea. So my thoughts were confirmed when I got on Facebook later that day and on my Home page was a post from him that said" Had the most amazing night tonight!!!! " and he had posted it at 3:30. Ten minutes before he had ditched me. Wow i'm that good. I watch enough CSI that I'm pretty good at figuring these things out.;) ha ha. So underneath that post I commented "So is that when the previous engagment came up? lol" I really do think i'm so funny. ;) So he deleted my comment. I deleted him as a friend.
So the search continues. . . . . ..
